August 14th, 2010
In other words, there are certain children who simply are born anxious.
“Different kids have different strengths and weaknesses,” said Kristen Davis-Coelho, a psychologist for Renown Behavioral Health in Reno. “Some are much more adventurous, really like new experiences, and other ones are a little more tentative. Sometimes it can surprise a parent.”
Biology or not, family psychologist and syndicated columnist John Rosemond said he believes parents almost always play a significant role in the problem.
“When you find a child of school age, kindergarten, first grade, it is almost always associated with parents and specifically a mother who has had difficulty separating from the child from day one,” he said.
The good news? In most cases, separation anxiety is quickly reversible. Davis-Coelho said only about 5% of children suffer from separation anxiety disorder, a severe form that lasts longer than a few weeks.
Advance planning
Bravo said children who are prone to anxiety tend to do better when they know what to expect each day, so she suggests getting them settled into a predictable schedule early.
“The child would have their time to eat, their time to go to sleep,” she said.
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